Community Guidelines
Every page on this site promises these take two minutes to read. Here's us keeping that promise.
The rules
The Rules, In Full
Good rooms don't happen by accident. These rules apply in every room on Chat Web — text, private messages, and cams alike — and the moderators enforce all of them.
1. 18+ Only. No Exceptions.
Every room on this network is for adults. Age confirmation is required at the door, and misrepresenting your age — in either direction of the form — means immediate removal and a ban. Any content that sexualises minors in any way, including fiction or roleplay, is an instant permanent ban and, where the law requires, a report to the authorities. This is the one rule with no ladder, no warning, and no appeal worth writing.
2. Consent Runs Everything
Nobody here owes anybody a conversation, a topic, a private message, a photo, a camera, or an answer. "No" ends an exchange — and so does silence. Continuing past either is harassment, however politely it's worded, and it's moderated as such. This applies everywhere: public rooms, PMs, and cams, in every room from adult chat to sex chat.
3. No Harassment, No Hate
Personal attacks, threats, bullying, and pile-ons are out. So is hate in every form — racism, misogyny, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, and the rest of that family. The rooms exist so people can relax; anyone making that impossible for others loses their seat, fast.
4. Privacy Is Sacred
What's shared at nickname level stays at nickname level. Never post another person's private information — real name, photos, location, workplace, socials — whether they're in the room or not, and never pressure anyone for theirs. "Outing" anyone, in any sense, is a serious breach. Protect your own privacy too: keep personal details out of public rooms, and be as careful with strangers here as anywhere online.
5. Right Room, Right Conversation
Each room has its own purpose, and what's welcome in one isn't automatically welcome in another. Explicit conversation belongs in sex chat, not adult chat; scenes belong in roleplay; and every room's own page describes its culture. Reading the room is half of chat etiquette — the other half is respecting what you read.
6. Cameras Are a Privilege, Both Ways
On video chat: nobody is ever required to broadcast, and pestering someone to "cam up" is harassment, full stop. If you do broadcast, the same rules apply on camera as in text, and moderators watch the cams as closely as the chat. Never record or screenshot other chatters — and remember that, on any site anywhere, you can't be certain others won't; broadcast accordingly.
7. No Spam, Scams, or Selling
No advertising, link-dropping, promotion of other sites or services, requests for money, or commercial solicitation of any kind. No flooding, no repeated identical messages, no bots. The rooms are for conversation, and the crowd can smell a funnel a mile off anyway.
8. Nothing Illegal
Don't use the rooms to arrange, encourage, or facilitate anything illegal, and don't share content that's illegal to share. Where the law requires us to act on something, we will.
9. Respect the Moderators
Moderators are people keeping the rooms good, usually while having a chat themselves. Follow their instructions in the room; if you think a call was wrong, appeal through the contact page rather than relitigating it in the room. Impersonating a moderator or staff member is a ban.
Enforcement
What Happens When Rules Break
Most enforcement is boring, and that's the point. For ordinary missteps the ladder runs: a word from a moderator, a mute, a removal from the room, then a ban — and genuine mistakes handled with good grace rarely climb past the first rung. Serious breaches skip the ladder entirely: anything involving minors, threats, doxing, or predatory behaviour is an immediate ban, permanently, on the first offence.
Bans can apply to nicknames, connections, or devices as needed to make them stick. If you believe a decision was wrong, appeal it — a person reads every appeal, and moderators' calls do occasionally get reversed. What doesn't work is ban evasion: coming back under a new nickname to continue the same behaviour turns a temporary ban into a permanent one.
Reporting
See Something? Report It.
The in-chat report button reaches a human moderator directly, mid-conversation — no forms, no waiting. Use it for anything that breaks these rules, and don't agonise over whether something "counts": moderators would far rather dismiss a borderline report than miss a real one. Reports are confidential; the person reported isn't told who reported them.
For anything outside the chat — or anything you'd rather put in writing — the contact page reaches us too. For anything involving a minor, report it immediately by either route; it goes to the front of every queue we have.
That's it
Two Minutes, As Promised
Nine rules, one ladder, one button. Follow the spirit of them — leave every room at least as good as you found it — and you'll never need to think about this page again.